'Failing to plan is planning to fail'
I just read this in a health magazine I got recently. By the way they are way better to read than goss magazines full of ads. Very inspiring!
So anyway in regards to planning I actually made one. I went to the 'notes' section on my iPhone and wrote my plan for today from the minute I woke up until just after lunch. It went something like this...
Plan
Just say yes to the kids more today!
Let them fight :)
Get up 7.30am and shower
Brekkie 8am
Walk 8.30am-9.30am
Morning Tea 10am
Kids play outside until lunchtime, I do the dishes and washing
Prepare lunch 11.30am
Lunch 11.45am
Movie after lunch until 12.30pm
Bed 12.45pm
Wake the boys up at 2.30pm
Afternoon, play doe, drawing, put bedspreads on the beds
Cook dinner 4-4.30pm
Dinner 5pm
Bath/Teeth 6pm
Bed 7pm (WOOHOO)
Me sit ups and leg raises for 3 sets of 20 each
Dinner 8pm
Vege out on the couch after that!
As you can see, my whole day revolves around the boys and what they need for the day. I planned my day with my walk 1st thing so that I knew it would get done. There would be no side distractions. Get it done and then I can get on with my day before it gets too hot.
The boys were happy to sit in the double pram whilst I went for a walk and when we were half way I let them play at the park for 20-30 minutes. Getting them back in the pram wasn't to tricky because I communicate to them beforehand that this is a quick play and we won't be staying very long. They understand more than we think they do. I also let them know as we are leaving the house that this outing is a pram outing and that it is for Mummy to have her exercise. This way they know its about me and to not expect a walk home as my older son normally likes to walk home on their outings and the younger one stays in the pram.
I should explain that 1st bit about 'let them fight' and 'Just say yes'
I find my days more stressful when I am constantly yelling at the boys to stop fighting over this or that and I say 'no' a LOT! So by including these in my plan reminds me that I should where possible let them sort out some of their own grievances. Plus saying yes more often results in happier EVERYONE!
I won't be spoilling them but sometimes saying "NO" can become a bit of a habit and you later think "hmmm they really could have done/had that why did I make a big deal and say no?"
So far the plan has worked well and the best thing about it is my 1 hour of exercise is done AND I added the boys weight in a double pram!
I'm feeling organised and ready for tomorrows plan!
Keep moving and drink some water. No really, lunge your way into the kitchen right now and have a drink of water :)